Slowly and surely I learned to think before I said anything. Before I put a response to a situation now I always think on how I would want this to end. It made my life slightly easier but not necessarily trouble free because there is another ‘tongue’ that is harder to bite. It called feeling.
I have never really been a full of feeling or emotional person. i strongly believe that feelings should be dictated by common sense. You should be able to control how you feel towards something. Don’t get angry unless it is necessary. Don’t be sad by something that you have no control of. Never regret anything unless you have plan on not how to fall into the same hole. Have a rational feeling, but do not rationalize it. Or your life will be very tiring. To feel without thinking is equal to exhaustion.
These all are sound very ideal. But as what normally happen in the real life, writing is easier than experiencing. Many times I had to struggle not to let my anger cloud my judgments. On the other hand, I also had to struggle not to let my fondness influence my decision.
I guess the biggest challenge is not to buy when you know you can. Not to give in to the feeling you have when you know that it won’t do anyone good
You have a much better life if you wear impressive clothes - Vivienne Westwood
Sounds vain, huh? But it's true! Wearing nice clothes lifts up your mood. Makes you feel better. Feel good about your self. At least, that's how i feel if i wore nice clothes. If that's the case, do we live in vanity world? May be we do. Physical appareance does matter. Beauty does rule. But it also comes with price. What is the price? To be continued... if i got the time to do it
oh ya... lupa plak... "I sound silly when i speak in malay u see"...