Sunday, November 16, 2008

salahi aku...

...cuaca sekarang benar-benar sedang tidak bersahabat. Siang panas, sore hujan... pagi hujan kemudian berhenti sejenak.. ehhh... terus hujan lagi siangnya sampai sore. sediiiihhh.... kerana hujan benar-benar mempengaruhi kehidupan..kenapa begitu ya?

sebelum terus... satu hadiah saya dapat.. dari aie... yg baru abis exam tu... mekasih aie... besh sgt tau... oh ya!! dia bagi saya ferrari merahhh... ni dia... terima kasih daun keladi...



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...speaking of stress, who never experience it? It's a part of life. Well I was reading stress-related article and according to it, it's considerably normal, it just depends how you handle it so it will not bring negative effects to your health (body & mind). You should start being worried about it.. if it's incessant and start wearing off your body..ternyata melelahkan! I have nothing against it, I mean it's individual choice...




some would say true friends will be there for you when your happy or sad, in wealthy or poor, when you're angry or even lonely. Some would say true friends are those who tell you the truth, no matter how hurting it'll be. Some even say true friends will be there for you even if you're distance.

My true friends have always been a few, and as time went by the list's getting shorter and shorter.. I wonder if I've driven them away. Unintentionally, of course..

I could tell in the minute I meet someone if he/she could be my friend or not. Sometimes I don't even bother to chit-chat or do the small talk if I didn't 'click' with the person.

Some 'friends' do things for you for the sake of courtesy, not that because they care. I know, I may sound paranoid but believe me I'm not that stupid not to see it...

I personally think:
True friends don't try to smart you out, nor make you look stupid
True friends listen to you even when you're swearing yourself out
True friends will always be there when you've been to hell, and back
True friends will always welcome you, even when the world turning its back to you
You can tell them whatever and not regretting a word you've said
True friends don't betray

Would you look at that list? Maybe I am just too hard to be friended...
Whatever true friends are, I missed mine so much.

10 comments:

Chika Chika said...

good friends are good for your health




✿ chika ✿
http://nurulism.com
(eceh)

bozzobattousai said...

kita kawan tak mau lawan....

chemot said...

i'm lucky to have reallly true friend(s) helping me out during my hard days since 2 years back till now.

go go caiyok!

i-chimera said...

yes chika - yogad juga bagus untuk kesihatan anda - bakteria baik yg menentang kejahatan dlm usus.. heheh

bozzo - hmmm betullah tu.

chemot - yeah! u r lucky. semoga ikatan persahabatan dgn sahabat tersebut terus berkekalan

:: Cikgu Wiween :: said...

nih suma sindrom 'i sound silly when i speak in malay u see' laa nih :p

good frens are more precious than gold :)

Sufi Idany said...

alhamdulillah. kami saling mengenali luar dan dalam, tahu kelemahan dan kkuatan.... she is the one yang mmg begitu dekat dengat hati saya.... kami sering berkongsi suka dan duka, tawa dan juga airmata.... rindu kan dia.... teramat sgt...

abg, sahabar yang sebenar2nya sahabat tidak akan biarkan kita jatuh sendirian, dia pasti di tebing atas menghulurkan tangannya yang luhur tuk kita bangkit bersama nya, dia tidak akan sesekali menolak kita tersungkur kerana dia lebih rela memimpin kita, dia tidak akan pernah tinggalkan kita di belakang bila setianya dia menanti kita utk sama2 seiringan....

Entry abg buat ida teringat seorang sahabat dulu....terputusnya ukhuwah tanpa ida tahu apa salah ida.... pernah tangan ida di tepis saat hati ingin memohon maaf walau diri tk tahu apa dosa yang terpalit.... akhirnya ida akur dan hnya meminta semoga Allah ampunkan ida jika benar ida yang bersalah.... Aqlima.... seindah dan semanis raut wajah miliknya....

MOHD RUSDI ABDULLAH said...

pergh...memang penuh dengan makna...terasa pulak..

Insan di Bumi Allah said...

true friends can see u even u r invisible...
true friends stay with u in ur ugly day..
true friends might sometimes make u hurt..n it'll hurt them too coz..they're telling u the truth..
(macam terover je..hehe)

cappuccino said...

kawan dtg dan pergi chime..pndai2 la kita memilih kawan..silap2 nt makan diri..

i-chimera said...

ween - oyya! lupa plak... i sound silly when i speak in malay u c... hehe

ida - komen ida bernas... semoga shabat yg ida ceritkan tu akan sgera insaf dgn kesalahan dia... rugi besau dia sebab terhilang sahabat baik macm ida..

sedi - terasa ek..?? errr

insan di bumi Allah - yeah, rite...
eh! takdelah over sgt...

bro - semoga saya memilih org yabg betul utk jadi kawan say...